Books
There are many self-help type books, which pick up the
theme of personal development and coaching.
For those who like simple motivational language - these
books are great! They are very useful for personal development
and confidence building. The David Hemery
book is about empowering children to be the best they
can, what an innovative application of life coaching!
‘Feel
the fear and do it anyway’ (Susan Jeffers)
is a well-established book first published in 1987,
that is still as relevant and inspirational today. It
has case studies that we can all relate to and practical
steps to help the reader into empowerment.
‘The
life coach’ (Pam Richardson) is a
great introduction to the life coaching process, which
is accessible to clients too. Some of the coaching tools
are described which might be helpful for clients who
need to be in control or understand before letting go
and giving themselves permission to have someone else
in their corner.
‘How
to Help Children Find the Champion Within Themselves
‘ (David Hemery) is an innovative,
accessible and groundbreaking guide that will change
the way adults communicate with children forever. I
also believe that within every young person there is
'a spark of greatness' and a unique individual keen
to fulfil his or her potential. Every adult is a guardian
of that flame of talent.
Personal development books, which totally inspired
me, include;
‘Time
to think’ (Nancy Kline) is a book
that shows us the importance of nurturing a thinking
environment (as opposed to a dictatorial regime of others
thinking/deciding for us), in order to improve human
interaction and the quality of our lives generally.
It’s not a revolutionary/ anti establishment book.
It’s about getting the most out of people and
in that respect it has many synergies with the principles
of person centred thinking introduced by Carl Rogers.
It shows the advantages of providing attention, respect
and appreciation when listening, which encourages people
to really think creatively for themselves.
‘The
work we were born to do’ (Nick Williams)
is a book I would recommend to anybody who has that
nagging feeling that ‘there’s got to be
more to life than this’! It is about life purpose
and finding joy in whatever you do.
It’s not prescriptive; you have to work on yourself
through exercises. As an example, I found the term ‘work’
has negative connotations for me, so I now have paid
creativity! Fantastic.
’Emotional
intelligence why it matters more than IQ’ (Daniel
Goleman) describes something that I instinctively
knew to be of utmost importance in life before I even
read the book. The quality of our lives is limited by
how well we understand ourselves, how well we understand
others and our ability to relate and empathise with
others. Vital if you’re not an island or your
job depends upon getting along with people.
Other resources
Wheel
of life- this tool is often used
by coaches to help clients look at balance in their
life. Balance is fluid, so it can be useful to look
at this regularly and see the impacts of changes you’ve
made to your life on your balance.
And finally;
Life coaching has an increasing exposure within the
mainstream media in the UK and USA. I have put links
into the broadsheets and BBC where the topics covered
are particularly relevant to potential clients.
These can be found within the Testimonials and Media
page and cover important issues including regulation
and qualifications.
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